Saturday, July 4, 2009

Deci$ion$ Define De$tinY

"It's in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped" - Anthony Hopkins says so! But making decision is not an easy job; rather say making a RIGHT decision is not easy. You very well know what you are, what you want. Known enough about the other person in front of you. Now how does it matter if a million ppl clog your mind?

Why is it so difficult to decide? Whey does pros and cons arise? Why do IFs and BUTs come in-between? Why does it keep getting harder? Why do priorities in life keep changing with TIME with AGE- ooooh, here may be the WISDOM gained with AGE plays its role taking away the leftover innocence away from you. Not good

Life becomes so miserable when this cloud of confusion sits right above your head. No where to go, no enthu to work, play, nothing is no fun. Even worse - can’t sleep at night, cant sleep in day. Insomnia sets in, all your life you wont know how NOT to fall asleep never ever you came across the stage when you cant fall asleep- not when you 1st fell in love, not when u fell in love again, not when you fell out of love, not when your dad caught you in another city as you went to meet your childhood sweetheart, not when you lose papers in engineering not at any stupid stage of your life before but NOW!!!
No wonder William James quotes - "There is no more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision"

Life becomes so stagnant, like there is no way out from this situation- so lost, losing yourself with every clock tick. Damn hate it!! May be you have always been so spoon fed, now when everything is right there in your hand, you are shaking. Shaking with doubts/speculations/intuitions; seems like we have no simple problems and easy decisions after kindergarten. Just can’t believe that 1 decision would make or break the whole life which is ahead, where all the dreams, hopes, desires are concentrated. Say it the BEST or WORST part of it- the decision is in YOUR own hands.
I like the way Johann Wolfgang von Goethe says - “Each indecision brings its own delays and days are lost lamenting over lost days... What you can do or think you can do, begin it. For boldness has magic, power, and genius in it"

YOU is ME honey :)

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